Billie Eilish is ‘attracted’ to women but ‘intimidated’ by them
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Billie Eilish, the immensely talented singer-songwriter who shot to fame with her hit songs like “Bad Guy” and “Ocean Eyes,” has been the subject of much speculation and debate when it comes to her sexuality. Internet searches for “Is Billie Eilish a lesbian?” are a regular occurrence, much to her frustration. However, in a recent interview, Eilish decided to put the rumors to rest and revealed that she is, in fact, physically attracted to women.
Speaking to Variety’s The Power of Women issue in November 2023, Eilish opened up about her struggles with public scrutiny, particularly when it comes to her body, sexuality, and relationships. She admitted that she has always found the constant speculation about her personal life “weird and upsetting,” and it has taken a toll on her self-esteem.
The Grammy-winning artist shared that she has “never felt desired or desirable” and has spent years assuming that other women don’t like her. Eilish expressed her love and attraction towards women, both as people and in a romantic sense. She revealed that she has deep connections with women in her life, including friends and family members.
However, Eilish also admitted that she feels intimidated by women and their beauty. She described feeling overwhelmed by their presence, which has contributed to her own feelings of not being desirable or feminine. Despite identifying as “she/her,” Eilish confessed that she has never really felt like a woman. She often has to convince herself that she is a “pretty girl.”
One significant moment that helped Eilish connect with other women was the release of her multi-Grammy-nominated song “What Was I Made For?” The song was written for the 2023 Barbie movie and accompanies a powerful scene where Barbie learns about womanhood from her creator, Ruth Handler. The emotional impact of the scene and Eilish’s heartfelt song resonated with audiences, especially female-identifying TikTokers who used the sound to share their own experiences of womanhood.
Eilish was deeply moved by the response to her song and the connections it fostered among women worldwide. She never anticipated that her music could bring people together in such a profound way. It was a special moment for her, and she felt honored to have played a part in making women feel connected and understood.
Eilish’s revelations about her sexuality and her evolving relationship with femininity came shortly after she reignited the debate about her sexual orientation. She used an Instagram filter that said, “Gay and Tired,” which sparked further speculation. Around the same time, an old video of Eilish began circulating on TikTok, where she emphatically stated her straightness. She expressed pride in being straight but also acknowledged the impact she has had on fans who have said she made them question their own sexuality.
As Eilish continues to navigate the scrutiny and speculation surrounding her personal life, it is clear that she is unapologetically true to herself. She is attracted to women but acknowledges her own insecurities and fears when it comes to connecting with them. Eilish’s openness about her struggles has resonated with many, and she hopes that by sharing her experiences, she can help others feel less alone.
In a world where celebrities’ personal lives are often dissected and judged, it is refreshing to see an artist like Billie Eilish speak candidly about her journey of self-discovery. Her bravery in sharing her truth will undoubtedly inspire others to embrace their own identities, regardless of societal expectations or stereotypes.
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