All of Us Strangers director: ‘It’s always surprising when queer content breaks through’
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Andrew Haigh’s ghostly gay romance film, All of Us Strangers, has already become the must-watch queer film of the year. With six BAFTA nominations and universal critical acclaim, it’s clear that this film has struck a chord with audiences worldwide.
Based loosely on Taichi Yamada’s 1987 novel, Strangers, the film follows a depressed and isolated queer writer in his forties, played by Fleabag star Andrew Scott. Still grappling with the death of his parents three decades earlier, his world is turned upside down in just one week. Not only does he embark on a deep and beautiful romance with his younger neighbor Harry, portrayed by Paul Mescal, but he also discovers a way to reconnect with his deceased parents.
Throughout the film, the protagonist is able to have vital and moving conversations with the apparitions of his mother and father, brilliantly portrayed by Claire Foy and Jamie Bell. These are conversations that he was unable to have when they were alive, making the experience all the more poignant. As his romance with Harry blossoms, the film explores the complexities of queerness in relation to family, particularly for those who grew up in a time when being gay was far less accepted.
Director Andrew Haigh, who identifies as gay himself, felt it was essential to center the queer experience in his version of the story. He wanted to explore how queerness can complicate relationships within families, especially for those who grew up in the 80s and early 90s when societal attitudes were vastly different. Haigh believes that this adds a significant layer to the narrative and allows viewers to understand the unique struggles faced by the protagonist.
One of the pivotal moments in the film occurs when Adam, the protagonist, comes out to his parents, who are stuck in the deeply homophobic Thatcher era. Their initial response is less than approving, highlighting the challenges faced by many queer individuals growing up during that time. Haigh believes that this aspect of the story adds depth and authenticity, as it reflects the experiences of countless queer individuals who felt isolated and separate from the world around them.
The casting of Paul Mescal, a straight actor, as a gay character has sparked some debate. However, Haigh defends the decision by explaining that Andrew Scott, a gay actor, was always intended to play the lead role. Haigh wanted to focus on a particular generation of gay men, and Scott’s age and experience resonated with that vision. The contrast between Adam and Harry in the film highlights how different generations of gay men navigate their lives, despite sharing similar traumas associated with growing up queer.
While All of Us Strangers is an emotional film, it also celebrates the beauty of living authentically among loved ones. By opening up to his parents, Adam is able to heal the wounds of their complicated relationship. Haigh believes that this aspect of the film reflects the reality that many people struggle to be their true selves, even when their loved ones are still alive. He hopes that the film will serve as a reminder that there is an alternative reality where individuals can find love, intimacy, and understanding.
The film has garnered numerous award nominations, including a BAFTA nomination for Best British Film. Although it was snubbed by the Oscars, Haigh is grateful to see the film resonating with queer audiences worldwide. He acknowledges that it’s always surprising when queer content manages to break through and gain recognition. While he understands that some people may be hesitant to watch the film due to its subject matter, he believes it is a story for everyone.
All of Us Strangers is currently playing in UK cinemas and is a must-watch for anyone seeking a moving and thought-provoking queer film experience.
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